The concept of an ‘ambitious woman’ often carries a negative connotation. When we label someone as ambitious, it implies a desire to achieve more or make a positive impact, which is perceived as a bad thing. This stereotype is particularly prevalent in politics, where female candidates are often criticized for their ambition. Similarly, in academic and professional settings, being seen as too driven can be detrimental. It’s essential to reframe this perception.
Ambition is a healthy quality that drives progress and change. While it may have both positive and negative outcomes, the absence of ambition would stagnate innovation and growth. The notion of ambition can manifest differently across individuals, ranging from bold and assertive to quiet and persistent.
To challenge these stereotypes and celebrate diverse forms of ambition, I’ve compiled a list of 20 must-read books that showcase various expressions of drive and determination in fiction and non-fiction settings.
Fiction
The Girl with the Louding Voice by Abi Dare
Adunni’s story is one of unyielding determination, as she strives to break free from the shackles of poverty in her rural Nigerian village. Sold into marriage at a tender age, life presents numerous challenges, yet she perseveres with an unwavering spirit, refusing to let adversity dim her aspirations. Her remarkable tenacity and captivating personality will hold you enthralled, ensuring this tale remains etched in your memory for a long time.
The Ten-Year Nap by Meg Wolitzer
The seemingly incongruous choice of this novel might initially raise an eyebrow, but bear with me as I explain its relevance. The story revolves around a quartet of high-achieving New York City friends – women who were constantly encouraged to excel in every aspect of their lives, from marriage and motherhood to careers. Initially, they successfully juggled these responsibilities, but eventually, each opted to become stay-at-home mothers for varying reasons.
Fast-forward ten years, and it’s striking how vastly different their lives have become from what they initially envisioned. This thought-provoking tome boasts astute social commentary, a theme that remains remarkably pertinent even over a decade since its initial publication.
She Regrets Nothing by Andrea Dunlop
For those seeking a captivating read reminiscent of Gossip Girl, look no further than the tale of Laila, a 23-year-old who finds herself orphaned and forced to navigate a complex web of family dynamics. After meeting her wealthy cousins from her father’s estranged side, Laila relocates to NYC and becomes entangled in their world, driven by a determination to claim what is rightfully hers.
As she delves deeper into the family’s secrets and scandals, refusing to be deterred by the intrigue, this novel masterfully captures the whirlwind of emotions that can arise when money, ambition, and family drama collide.
Give Me Your Hand by Megan Abbott
In his latest thriller, Abbott weaves a web of suspense and intrigue around two complex characters, Kit and Diane. The pair have been friends since high school, but their competitive nature has always simmered beneath the surface. A decade later, Kit has reached the pinnacle of her career, seemingly forgetting the past and its complicated dynamics with Diane. However, when they both discover themselves in the running for a coveted research position, their rivalry is reignited.
The stakes are higher than ever before, as each woman will stop at nothing to claim the top spot.
Woman on Fire: A Novel by Lisa Barr
In a world where ambition and obsession collide, a young journalist driven by a personal mission to recover a stolen painting from Nazi hands finds herself entwined in a complex web of intrigue. Meanwhile, a wealthy art collector and gallerist accustomed to getting what she wants is also on the hunt for the same piece. The unexpected twist? A talented artist who knows both women becomes embroiled in their pursuits, with allegiances torn between two formidable forces.
As these characters navigate the high-stakes world of art and antiquity, they must confront the dark secrets and historical mysteries that threaten to upend their very existence.
She Who Became the Sun by Shelley Parker-Chan
In this fantasy novel, the story takes an intriguing turn as it reimagines the founding of the Ming dynasty. The protagonist, Zhu, hails from a poverty-stricken background, where she and her brother are struggling to make ends meet. Their world is turned upside down when they become orphaned, leaving only one option for survival – adopting their brother’s identity to join a monastery.
As fate would have it, the monastery meets a tragic end, prompting Zhu to take matters into her own hands and live up to the prophecy received by her brother, even if it means defying the course of destiny.
In the Time of the Butterflies by Julia Alvarez
In this compelling narrative, the concept of ambition takes on a unique form. The true story unfolds with the discovery of three sisters near their Jeep at the base of a cliff in November 1960, which was initially recorded as an accidental death by the newspaper. However, what’s remarkable is the unspoken aspect – a crucial detail that adds depth to this captivating tale.
Based on real events, the novel delves into the lives of four sisters, La Mariposas, also known as the butterflies, who boldly defied General Trujillo’s oppressive regime in the Dominican Republic. Alvarez masterfully brings these courageous women to life, showcasing their unwavering bravery and unshakeable determination.
Nonfiction
Persist by Elizabeth Warren
Warren’s experience with ambition serves as a poignant reminder that societal expectations can be vastly different for men versus women in politics. The notion of having big plans and high aspirations was often met with skepticism or even ridicule when she pursued them. In this book, Warren shares six pivotal perspectives that have influenced her life and advocacy work, including those of mother, teacher, fighter, and planner.
This deeply personal account not only explores her own journey of setting and striving for goals but also issues a rallying call to others to join her in the pursuit of making a positive impact.
Lead From the Outside by Stacey Abrams
This memoir-in-progress offers a glimpse into the author’s experiences and perspectives, revealing valuable insights about herself and her values. While not exclusively focused on her life story, it presents a nuanced portrayal of who she is and what drives her. The book serves as an invitation to those outside the mainstream to leverage their unique position for positive impact.
Rather than accepting the status quo or giving up in the face of adversity, Abrams shows that pushing forward can be both necessary and empowering. The result is a relatable, practical, and inspiring guide that motivates readers to strive for change and pursue their passions.
Haben: The Deafblind Woman Who Conquered Harvard Law by Haben Girma
Haben’s upbringing in Eritrea was marked by summer visits with her family, where stories of their 30-year struggle against Ethiopia during the war sparked a sense of purpose within her. Her parents’ refugee story inspired her to explore what it means to belong globally. As she ventured around the world, she discovered that her disability wasn’t a limitation, but rather an opportunity for creative problem-solving.
She found innovative ways to adapt daily life, and this book chronicles her travels, inclusivity-driven innovations, and advocacy work.
The Truths We Hold: An American Journey by Kamala Harris
Kamala Harris’ memoir is a powerful reflection of ambition in action. As the first woman Vice President of the United States, she has dedicated her life to shaping her own path, and this book provides a unique glimpse into the people, places, and experiences that have influenced her journey.
From her childhood as the daughter of immigrants to her decision to run for public office, Harris shares intimate stories that reveal not only what drives her but also how those same values can bring people together across differences. Ultimately, her memoir is a testament to the transformative power of working towards shared truths and the potential for meaningful change when we come together in pursuit of them.
The Code Breaker by Walter Isaacson
Jennifer Doudna’s fascination with DNA began when she was just 11 years old, reading a book on the subject in sixth grade. Despite being advised by her high school counselor that girls don’t typically pursue careers in science, Doudna remained resolute, driven to carve out a path for herself as a scientist. Her dedication ultimately led to groundbreaking discoveries, including her work on CRISPR, a revolutionary tool capable of editing DNA.
This journey is not only marked by the Nobel Prize she received in 2020 alongside collaborator Emmanuelle Charpentier but also by the intricate web of ethical, personal, social, and moral considerations that accompany the pursuit of such innovative breakthroughs.
We Go High: How 30 Women of Color Achieved Greatness Against All Odds by Nicole Ellis
This remarkable collection of 30 stories showcases the life journeys, personal philosophies, and professional accomplishments of women of color from diverse backgrounds. The book features inspiring profiles of trailblazers such as Nadiya Hussain, Koa Beck, Naomi Osaka, Dolores Huerta, and many others, highlighting a wide range of careers and industries. What stands out is the visually stunning presentation, combining vibrant pictures and paintings to bring each woman’s story to life.
This captivating book is a must-read for people of all ages, offering valuable insights and a sense of empowerment.
The National Team: The Inside Story of the Women Who Changed Soccer by Caitlin Murray
The story of the US Women’s National Soccer Team is one that resonates deeply, spanning from its inception in the 1980s to the 2019 World Cup. Murray delves into the stark contrasts between the men’s and women’s teams, as well as the intricacies of US professional soccer leagues. The narrative is woven together by personal stories of individual players, who despite facing numerous obstacles, persevered to achieve their goals.
Notably, this team has recently secured equal pay for women’s soccer, making an updated account of these developments a compelling addition to the original tale.
Heart of Fire: An Immigrant Daughter’s Story by Mazie K. Hirono
The unorthodox journey that led Hirono to the Senate is a testament to the power of resilience and determination. Growing up on a rural rice farm in Japan, followed by a move to Hawaii with her mother, who was escaping an abusive marriage, provided the foundation for her future success. The challenges she faced as a child, including learning English from scratch in first grade, instilled in her a strong work ethic and empathy for those facing similar struggles.
Her mother’s unwavering dedication to providing for their family, despite working multiple jobs, further shaped Hirono’s drive to advocate for others. Through her writing, she candidly explores the weight of societal expectations placed on women in politics, ultimately breaking free from them to forge a unique path. This intensely personal narrative is sure to strike a chord with readers.
Shine Bright: A Very Personal History of Black Women in Pop by Danyel Smith
Smith’s captivating blend of biography, memoir, and criticism delves into the remarkable stories of prominent Black women pop figures, weaving together personal experiences with artistic expressions. Through meticulous research, she explores the lives and careers of Phyllis Wheatley, Mahalia Jackson, Mariah Carey, Deniece Williams, and many others, shedding light on their enduring legacies in music and beyond.
The book not only chronicles these trailblazing artists’ journeys but also reveals how their music has profoundly influenced Smith’s own life and the broader musical landscape. A compelling summer read that will leave readers inspired and informed.
Being Heumann: An Unrepentant Memoir of a Disability Rights Activist by Judith Heumann
Judith Heumann is a renowned disability rights activist who has been making waves for decades. Her story began to unfold in the documentary Crip Camp, which introduces her remarkable journey. For those unfamiliar, Heumann’s achievements include successfully suing the NYC school system after they denied her a teaching license due to her paralysis from polio. This courageous move was followed by her leadership role in the Section 504 Sit-In.
Her memoir provides an intimate look at her tireless activism and advocacy efforts, shedding light on what it truly means to have a society that is inclusive and accepting of people with disabilities.
Surpassing Certainty: What my Twenties Taught Me by Janet Mock
As Mock approached the milestone of turning 20, she was still refining her college experience and embracing her true self, now post-transition. Her journey takes her through the highs and lows of first loves, sex, dating, vulnerability, and career exploration. Upon relocating to NYC, Mock pursues a career in magazine publishing, keenly aware that as a trans woman of color, she would confront multiple obstacles.
Through her writing, she shares how she developed resilience by advocating for herself and others, as well as the perseverance required to overcome adversity and forge her own path. This unflinching memoir chronicles Mock’s quest to claim her identity, discover her passions, and find her way in a world full of challenges.
Bad Girls Go Everywhere: The Life of Helen Gurley Brown, the Woman Behind Cosmopolitan Magazine by Jennifer Scanlon
The biography by Scanlon delves into the life of Helen Gurley Brown, the trailblazing Editor-in-Chief of Cosmopolitan magazine for over three decades. The narrative weaves together Brown’s humble beginnings in the Ozarks, her exploits in New York City, and her influential work at the magazine, where she pioneered a ‘lipstick feminist’ ideology that celebrated sex, ambition, and power.
Despite her groundbreaking impact on the media landscape, Gurley Brown is often relegated to the periphery of discussions about pioneering feminists, making this biography a thought-provoking examination of a figure who left an indelible mark on popular culture.
Sisters in Law: How Sandra Day O’Connor and Ruth Bader Ginsburg Went to the Supreme Court and Changed the World by Linda R Hirshman
Despite their distinct personalities, O’Connor and Ginsburg shared commonalities that defined their journeys. Both women pioneers in a male-dominated legal landscape, they faced similar challenges in pursuing their studies and careers. Hirschman’s narrative skillfully weaves together the biographies of these two trailblazers, exploring not only their individual paths but also the close friendship they formed while working together to shape the law and redefine the Supreme Court.
This unique blend of biography, professional analysis, and personal anecdotes yields a captivating and informative read. The stories of O’Connor and Ginsburg serve as testaments to ambitious women who dared to dream big and drive change. If you’re seeking more inspiration from trailblazing women, consider exploring posts on ambitious women in science fiction and fantasy or leadership books for women.